When Papa doesn't talk with me as he used to, I just feel quite uneasy. I know this is a sign that Papa finally accepted me as an adult, well, not a child any more that needs their protection. But everything just seems not so right. Is it because that although I am always eager for kind of freedom, I'm not that used to it when I really get it? I m not so sure. Anyway, I figured one thing out that I am no longer a child that needs confirmation from the parents. I should and have to get used to it. I should be confident in every action and thought of mine, without expecting that Papa and Mama say something like "Ah, you are my good girl!" I am a grown-up now and in charge of myself.
The second thing I figured out these days is that I believe I should change my way of communicating with my love a little bit, especially when we talk in front of other people. It seems that I have given him too many negations, which are indeed bad, for every one. I should let him express himself, let him finish. How can I be so sure that I'm right in every point?
Wow, a great jump, cheer up!
The second thing I figured out these days is that I believe I should change my way of communicating with my love a little bit, especially when we talk in front of other people. It seems that I have given him too many negations, which are indeed bad, for every one. I should let him express himself, let him finish. How can I be so sure that I'm right in every point?
Wow, a great jump, cheer up!
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